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With a little over a month until Valentine’s Day rolls around you might be wondering how to get romantic this year. As a gamer you hobby probably plays a big part in your life and sometimes it might feel like it’s hindering your dating prospects rather than helping them. Worry not though as I have a bunch of great gamer date ideas to see you through Valentine’s!

Valentine’s can be seen as a bit of a cheesy, commercial holiday. If we’re being completely honest with ourselves, that’s exactly what it is. However there’s nothing wrong with a bit of light-hearted fun and romance and Valentine’s Day could be just the excuse you need to find someone who shares your hobbies and interests. Nerd dating doesn’t have to completely revolve around gaming but it’s a pretty good place to start!
Play video games together
We might as well start with the obvious one hadn’t we? If you’re both into gaming then the obvious date night option is to play your favourite games together. You could choose games you both love for a bit of bonding time but also why not introduce each other to your favourite games. It’s a great way to get talking and learn more about each other as you teach each other has to play!
My fiancé and I both love a game of Crash Team Racing together and we get pretty competitive but he’d never know what to do on The Sims and I wouldn’t have the first clue about Star Wars Battlefront. It’s a fun way to get to know what you both like and get a little closer to each other.
Go old school
Chances are if you class yourself as I gamer it’s video games you enjoy. But why not go old school for one night and get out the board games? They can be just as fun and even more competitive than computer games. It’s a nice way to spend an evening not staring at a screen. Grab some snacks and some drinks and try not to fall out over a game of Monopoly!
Try out an escape room
For a bit of real life gaming then why not put your skills to the test in an escape room? Either test your skills out against each other or team up and work together against another couple. Gamer dates don’t have to just involve a screen and a video game and an escape room is a great chance to have some fun and either get competitive or work together in real life not just virtually.
Get offline
Hear me out with this. If your shared interest is gaming then spending date nights doing that very thing is the obvious and easy choice. But there is a danger of it getting repetitive. Make sure you keep things fresh and mix it up with some non game related dates too.
To take a break from the screens at home but still enjoy something gaming related you could always do other gamer activities such as visiting an arcade or a gaming convention.
Retro night
Have you both grown up with a love of gaming? Did Spyro or Crash Bandicoot ignite your passion for video games? Then go retro! If you still have your old consoles dust then off for retro gaming night.
If things have got a little more serious between you and your date or you’re a long term gamer couple having a date night and you don’t own a retro console then why not invest in one together. Some of the older consoles are pretty cheap to pick up now.
So this Valentine’s, whether you’re a loved up gamer couple or you’re looking to meet gamer girls or gamer boys chose the right gamer date for you and you’ll have your player two by your side for life!
What’s your favourite video game? Let me know in the comments!



I’m not a gamer (my boyfriend is) but these are great ideas! I don’t know about the escape room I think we’re gonna sped the whole time arguing haha. And I definitely agree with going old school! Lovely tips. THanks for sharing.
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Haha yeah I think I’d end up arguing with my fiancé under the pressures of an escape room too!
I love how organised you are.. I haven’t even started thinking about Valentine’s Day. My man loves to play fifa and his idea of a good day is playing it as much as possible. So, I’m going to note down your ideas ready for Feb!
Rosie
Thank you! I hope it’s given you some inspiration!
My boyfriend and I are both gamers but we enjoy VERY different games. He loves racing games, I love horror / survival! But gaming is definitely a big part of both our lives 🙂 We want to start playing chess again, actually!
That sounds great, I honestly have no idea how to play chess!
These are great Valentine date ideas for gamers Lauren! x
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Thank you!
I love these ideas. Hubby and I are both gamers, though we play completely different genres of games. He loves ones like Mass Effect and Dragon Age, while I tend to only play World of Warcraft. However, going retro is so much fun, and admittedly all of our gaming systems, computers not included, are quite old. So busting out the SNES for a valentine’s game gaming date sounds like tons of fun. I just wish duck hunt worked on new TVs, but at least there are other good classics like Mario to keep us entertained.
That sounds like a lot of fun, you can’t beat a good game of Mario!
I would love to do an escape room! All your ideas are great, thank you 🙂
All the best, Michelle (michellesclutterbox.com)
Thanks! Yes I think an escape room would be lots of fun.